Forty Years Stronger

Dean and I often mention how blessed we are to have so many wonderful examples of good marriage in our lives. From grandparents, parents, and siblings to friends and church leaders, we are fortunate to be surrounded by strong, happy couples. I am sure this is one of the great factors that has contributed to a blissful transition into married life for us. We've witnessed first hand God's pattern for marriage and family applied in daily life year after year. 

I loved what President Packer had to say about this kind of marriage. "... If you suppose that the full-blown rapture of young romantic love is the sum total of the possibilities which spring from the fountains of life, you have not yet lived to see the devotion and the comfort of longtime married love. Married couples are tried by temptation, misunderstandings, financial problems, family crises, and illness, and all the while love grows stronger. Mature love has a bliss not even imagined by newlyweds."

Today, my own parents celebrate 40 YEARS of righteous marriage. Together, they brought into this world and raised nine strong children. They taught us truth and provided everything we need to find joy. They have worked and served in the home, at church, and in the community, blessing countless lives beyond our own family. They are influential grandparents to 15 beautiful, smart, kind, and solidly good kids (with numbers 16 and 17 arriving soon).

Through these decades they have faced difficulty and heartbreak in many forms. Yet, I can say that in my 31 years of life, I cannot recall one fight, unkind word, or moment of disrespect between them. They honor one another. They each respect the other's roles and express appreciation. They consistently work together, focused with faith in Christ, to accomplish the great work of FAMILY. And they love one another. 

Thank you, Dad and Mom, for your wonderful marriage and for showing us the way. Happy Anniversary! We love you!